“Adulting.” It’s a verb, a meme, a state of mild panic when you realize you’re responsible for keeping houseplants alive and understanding what an RRSP actually is. If the financial part of growing up feels like you’ve been handed an IKEA flat-pack guide to building a space shuttle, you’re not alone. Budgeting apps are cool… Heard the one about the daily latte bankrupting a generation? It’s a popular tale: skip your $5 coffee, squirrel away the savings, and voilà – you’re a millionaire by retirement! It’s a neat, guilt-inducing soundbite that’s been percolating in financial columns for years. And while mindfulness about spending is never a bad idea, fixating on…